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Long-form talk about habits, anxiety, language and living somewhere that is not home. Roughly every other week, recorded in Tokyo.
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On starting before you are ready
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#06 On starting before you are ready 42m
Readiness is mostly a feeling, and it tends to arrive after you begin rather than before. We talk about why waiting to feel prepared is such a reliable way to never start, and what a sensible minimum actually looks like.
- The difference between preparation and procrastination that looks like preparation
- Why the first version of anything is supposed to be bad
- A listener question about changing fields at forty
#05 The myth of the perfect morning 38m
Five-a.m. routines, cold plunges, and the quiet guilt of waking up at eight. An honest look at why elaborate morning routines are so appealing and so fragile.
- Why routines built for your best self collapse first
- Chronotypes, and the people for whom early mornings are genuinely wrong
- The two-minute floor, applied before breakfast
#04 Talking to strangers in a second language 51m
The gap between understanding a language and being able to speak it, and why that gap feels so much like failure.
- Comprehension and production as genuinely separate skills
- Hobby groups as the most underrated language tool
- What to say when someone switches to English on you
#03 When rest feels like failure 35m
Where the belief that rest must be earned comes from, what it costs, and how to put it down.
- Rest as maintenance rather than reward
- The difference between resting and numbing
- Doing nothing, on purpose, without a podcast on
#02 Small rooms, small habits 44m
Tokyo apartments are famously compact. A small space turns out to be an unusually good teacher.
- Designing a room so the good habit is the easy one
- What a genuinely small kitchen teaches you about cooking
- Living with less, without it becoming a personality
#01 Why Tofuko? 29m
The first episode. Where the name came from, why the mascot is a block of tofu with a sprout on its head, and what this whole thing is meant to be for.
- Tofu as a small, plain, quietly adaptable thing
- Why “life is more” and not “life is better”
- What gets published here, and what deliberately does not